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Ms Matty Silver

Ms Matty Silver

Mobile 0411 131 619
Relationship Therapist, Sexologist

Matty Silver Sex Therapist

Mobile 0411 131 619

I'm a Relationship Counsellor and Sex Therapist. It's my experience that couples experiencing relationship difficulties often need help dealing with sexual issues as they often go hand in hand. Over the last decade I have combined skills in both areas to help couples and individuals move past sex challenges. and restore fun, intimacy and respect in their relationships.


  • Suite 202 - 54 Foveaux Street, Surry Hills, Sydney NSW 2010 0411 131 619 PHONE 0411 131 619


  • Counselling, Couples Therapy, Phone Consultations, Online Video Consultations 
  • Areas of My Practice
    I can help you with:

    For Males
    Erectile Dysfunction or Impotence
    Premature or Delayed Ejaculation
    Performance Anxiety
    Sexual problems after Illness

    For Females
    Loss of Desire for Sex
    Difficulties Experiencing Orgasm
    Painful Intercourse and Vaginismus

    For both Partners
    Relationship Counselling
    Mismatched Sex Drives
    Lack of Sexual Enjoyment
    Lack of Intimacy
    Psycho Sexual Education

    Other Issues
    Sexuality in Later Life
    Confusion about Sexual Orientation
    Gender Identity problems
    Disability and Sexuality

    As real as these issues are, there is also a great deal of fear attached to them. With patience and experienced counselling, I can help you work through any of these areas successfully.

    Areas of Special Interest

  • Divorce / Separation, Gay and Lesbian Issues, Gender and Sexuality, Intimacy Issues, Men's Issues, Performance Anxiety, Relationship Issues, Sex Related Issues, Women's Issues  
  • MODALITIES / Approach

    ACT, CBT, Marriage and Family, Narrative Therapy, Solution Oriented

    The counselling approach I provide is solution focused, caring and sensitive to your individual needs, combined with evidence based strategies such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). This therapy is based around helping you understand, manage and change your thoughts (cognitions) and actions (behaviour).


    • Diploma of Counselling and Communication - 2007 - ACAP
    • Graduate Diploma Sexual Health - 2008 - University of Sydney
    • Master of Health Science (Sexual Health) - 2009 - University of Sydney

    Professional Associations

    • Australian Counselling Association
    • Australian Society of Sex Educators, Researchers and Therapists NSW

    Quality Provision

    Australian Society of Sex Educators Researchers and Therapists

    Former Fairfax Blogger
    Former Huffington Post Blogger
    Author of SEX Down Under


    Originally from The Netherlands, I have lived in Australia for over 40 years. My cultural background has made me a very open minded and approachable person and my clients describe me as “easy to talk to”.

    Over the years I have worked in a range of professional fields, which has provided me with the ability to communicate and build rapport with individuals from various cultures. Furthermore, from living in different places around the globe, I have acquired a depth of life experiences which complement my counselling skills.

    For over 10 years I’m now an ASSERT NSW accredited relationship counsellor and sex therapist and I am the author of SEX Down Under.


    Weekdays from 10 am to 7 pm.
    Saturdays from 11 am to 3 pm.

    Transport and Parking

    My office is a 5 minute walk from Central Station.
    Plenty of paid parking available


    The fee for individuals and couples counselling is $170 for a 1 hour session and $250 for a 1.5 hours session. The initial appointment focuses on gaining a detailed understanding of you and your needs. A thorough initial consultation is important.

    Payment Options

    Payment can be made by Credit Card, Cash or direct deposit into my bank account.


  • English
  • German

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    10 Questions with Matty Silver

    • What led you to choose psychotherapy or counselling as a profession?

    • After being a volunteer Life Line telephone counsellor for many years, I decided to start the ACAP counselling course. My first and second internship was with Impotence Australia - a telephone service in Surry Hills.
      This started my interest in Sex Therapy and I decided to attain the Master of Health Science (Sexual Health) at the University of Sydney.
      This started my career as a Sex Therapist and Relationship Counsellor.
    • Which philosophical approaches have influenced your professional/personal development?

    • Coming from an open-minded society (The Netherlands) which view sex as a normal part of life, I realised that Australians view sex very differently to the way I did and it saddened me that there is such a taboo around sex.

      I started writing articles for the on-line Fairfax papers and later on The Huffington Post. Based on the articles, I have written a book called SEX Down Under - Information, insights and sex education for grown ups. The book deals in short chapters, with many of the issues I encounter in my counselling room, with the aim to help the reader understand that most of these issues are commonly experienced and can be resolved.
    • Which particular aspects of health or the human journey are you interested in?

    • I like to break down and demystify some of the taboos and barriers around sex and encourage people to feel more comfortable talking about it.
    • What method/s do you use?

    • Most important with Sex Therapy is to take a very detailed sexual history, especially with males.
      I find out out what their 'issue' is - when 'things' were good and when they changed.

      When I see a couple, I again find out what the main issue is. I see them separately for a short confidential session - then they come back together again.

      I use the solution focussed method which means giving advice and support.
    • When do you think the client will start to feel that progress is being made?

    • Most of my clients feel progress is made within weeks.
    • What do you like most about being a therapist?

    • The feed back I receive.
    • Do you ever have 'bad hair' days?

    • No, not really.
    • What do you think is the most significant problem we face, in the world today?

    • Climate Change
    • Can you share the name of a book, film, song, event or work of art that inspires you?

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    Ms Matty Silver

    Matty Silver

    Relationship Therapist, Sexologist

    Sex therapy is a counselling experience where clients have identified their problem as a sexual one, Concerns for both men and women can be mismatched sex drives, lack of sexual enjoyment and intimacy.
    Other issues can be confusion about sexual orientation and other gender issues.
    I help men resolve issues such as premature and delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety. ...

    • Surry Hills
    • ACT, CBT, Marriage and Family, Narrative Therapy, Solution Oriented